tip for gals: NEVER tell a guy what yur plans are for the next day and nite.....in case u decide that you just want a break from that guy...................

tip for guys: if a gal says that she'd call u and then she doesn't, she's NOT INTERESTED anymore......get it!!

alrite....when a gal dumps a guy or stands him up, then she does it for the best of reasons....i'm not gonna go into details of this but i ditched the Libyan guy cos he' a bit too much for me........yesterday i decided not to call him and invite him to join me at th farwell party or to th finnish party cos i had decided that i didn't want a guy hanging around me the whole nite..........it was valentine's day for goodness sake and i never celebrate it..........i'd rather spend my time wth my friends...and i was really looking forward to going out into goergtown afterwards wth everybody else...... that was until i saw the Libyan dude cuming to the party at Sunnyville ....actually i had seen him waiting for me outside the campus when going to Sunnyville in the German guy's car......quite honestly that really freaked me out...it's another thing when u tell a guy that u'll call him to confirm when and where your going....but it's another thing altogether when that guy is waiting outside the main gate of the campus...waiting for u to come out....
that's creepy man.....

anyways, wat happened.....o yeah....that guy had a go at me cos i didn't call him the whole day like i said that i would.....ok that was my mistake....maybe i should have called him and told him that i didn't want to go out with him.....huh!?..who the fuck does that??? i'd just assume that he'd get the message after i don't call....c'mon he can't be that dumb!! but yeah, there he was at the party.....he had met up with Leigh, jay, Lucie, and others from the campus....Jay was tellng me that he felt sorry for the guy so they gave him Sonja's mobile no. He did call Sonja and Sonja passed on the phone to me....that was a mistake man...cos i went.."hi this is Preetika" and a moments hestation after hearing his voice, i knew that it was him.............i pretended that i couldn't hear him)...and put the phone down...(i know i know ....that's bad..........but eventually he ended up at S. Ville at the party......so i had to put up with him and his questions as to why 'I don't like him anymore' ...i will not go into details of these
conversations.. yeah there were many like these...and it was bad man....real bad....i didn't know how to tell him that i did not want to go out with him ........but i was able to sneak away with Lucie and Harry after Sophie wanted to get some beer....Bobby was an angel and kept that guy company while i was gone.....It was raining like hell but Harry drove around campus for a while....we had to go back to the party cos now that Sophie had the beer, she didn't have a beer opener! so when we went back to S.Ville, everybody was in a process of leaving for Goergetown....now the problem that i had was not let the Libyan dude come with me....Yoshi was great....he was trying to plotting ways of leaving the guy behimd....at one point he was like " Preetika, your sure that u don't want the guy hanging around? Cos if you are then i can just tell him to fuck off! I can tell him to fuck off! Don't worry about anything" and I'm sure that he would have done it. Thanx Yoshi...

But then i plucked up enough courage to tell the Libyan dude that it would be better that it would be better if he just went home...i figured that i got myself into this mess so i'd better do something about it myself....he wanted to see me today but i would hav none of that. i left it on a note that i just wanted him to be my friend and THAT's IT!! I don't know if he got the message but i havn't seen him around today so that's great...of course i was sleeping most of the day and just returned from a wedding reception.....

anyways, after that guy left, we hit the streets.....we had two cars...one was Harry's with 6 of us....the other one was these two german guy's car....actually, this guy Mark wanted to drive the car but Yoshi and I discussed it and decided that it would be safer just to get a taxi cos everyone was gonna drink when they go to the club ...Yoshi said that he would be capable of driving and i believe him but it's best to remain on the safe side i reckon....but after I left with other's in Harry's car and reached the club, we had wait for others to catch up. It turned out that they had brought the car after all!! not very wise but it saved on the taxi fares afterwards...plus Yoshi brought us back in one piece so that was great.....we listened to some crappy German music on the way, following the board signs cos none of were absolutley sure which way to go...getting lost a bit but eventually finding our way around..... Sonja and I decided to do some Lesbian acts in th front seat.....me and her were sitting on the front seat and the other 3 guys at the back....it was a hilarious sight seeing the shocked faces of the ppl passing by....and after a while both of us decided that it was a bit too much!!! but fun though!!

o this is the conversation that i remember from that nite....One of the German guys Marc wanted to piss ...real bad

Marc: stop the car Yoshi. I need to do some buisness.
Yoshi: what? Hang on.
(Yoshi slows the car at an intersection)
Marc: ok, i'll go now.
(Yosh speeds up again)
Yoshi: You can't get off here...it's the intersection.
M: Yoshi stop the car.
Sonja: Wait, I'll giv u a bottle.
Bernard: not in the car. not in the car!!
M: STOP the car Yoshi. I need to go NOW!!
Yoshi: I can't stop. This is the intersection....
Leigh: can somebody turn off the radio!!
Sonja: SHUT UP back there!!
Marc: Yoshi...stop the car........NOW!!!!!
Yoshi: Wait...wait....

finally Yoshi stopped the car near an alley and Marc did his thing....and Bernard fished out some cassete with some good music on it.....i'm really glad that Marc was sitting in th middle of teh seat between bernard and Leigh...otherwise he would hav jumped out of the car.....

anyways we ended up at an afterparty...o before this...the biggest news of the night!! one of the German guys, Bernard hit it off with a LADYBOY................hhahahahahahahahaahha
i don't think he had realised it though at the club as it was pitch dark there.....i only realised that it was a lady boy when Bernard had turned on his cigarette lighter for that 'lady' and her/his face showed just enough for me to go 'fuck,.... that ain't a gal'....i went in search for Bobby cos he had mentioned before that that 'bitch was throwing herself at Bernard'...I think i also told Yoshi afterwards but he couldn't really make out cos like i said, it was pitch black in there. anyways, Bobby went to the rescue and in his words 'chased the bitch away'........ahahahhahahaha poor Bernard....i feel sorry for him....that's a cruel thing to happen to anybody.....

then later we went to the afterparty at 7.30am....but by then everything was dying down...just hung around for a while and then went home....after having makan at the tandoori place...man they must be wondering what i am up to cos i hav been turning up at their place early in the mornings the whole of this week after a hard nite out...
o well....who cares.....

i just came from a wedding reception....was supposed to meet up with Sonja in goergetown at some club but decided not to....bit under the whether....hav this really terrible sore throat.....was hoping to go to th docs but it's closed by now....will hav to wait till tomorrow.....my exams start on mon....o fuck, i don't hav th notes for tuesday's paper.....damnit!!!! hav to do smthing about that now...and then there's another paper on wed...guess clubbing will hav to wait till wed....

that's it for now....later

tip for today: NEVER eat garlicy food when out on a date!!!!.............and if yur partner is eating smthing garlicy, then giv him mints afterwards......otherwise it's a real toture........i found out the hard way!!!! i hav to puke now.....later

happy Valentine's Day everybody!!!

alrite...tip for gals......NEVER take your date to a club where u already wanted to fix somebody....like a cute waiter whose working there....esp if u happen to be a regular at that club. i totally forgot about that dude there....only realised the mistake when i went there with the Libyan dude and Sonja (first out of many ppl) told me that that waiter was asking where i was .......aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! of course Sonja didn't know what had happened on Saturday as she was dead drunk....but still that was bad man!!! just wanted to get the hell out of there....and i wish i had taken a picture of Lucie going " Preetika!? what happened last Saturday? and whose this!? what!? where!?..." I don't blame her. I was just as shocked when I realised that the waiter and i got along quite well the last time. I took it as one of those guysthat u really hit it off with but NEVER expect to see them again for the rest of yur life!!! I guess I should tick waiters off this list....but he was alrite...and to think that Sonja's friend, the manager or something introduced us......and me showing up with another guy the very next week.......bad gal bad gal!!!


tips for guys......say 'I love u' to a gal only if u mean it (probably knowing the gal for 2+ years)......please NEVER say it on the first date ...esp to gals like me.....i just take that as a que that the guy wants to get in my pants and THAT is NEVER gonna happen!! and i just give that relationship a week maximum.....2 if yur good!!


tip no 2.: never say ' I can't live without u' when only five minutes before i had told u that i'll be leaving the place in less than a month and u'll stay back for another 3 years........that's just plain stupid.....


tip no. 3: never say ' I like whatver u like and don't like what u don't like' and end up smoking in front of me esp after i had told u earlier that i HATE that habit.......


tip no. 4: never say ' i'm not gonna drink if yur not going to' and then later on go drinking whisky or smthing.....shows yur lack of willpower......not impressive at all!


lets see wat else.....i can go on but those are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too personal.....so that'll hav to pass for now.....wat a nite man! wat a nite!! it was crazy......it ended up with a man claiming to be the police chasing us around Komtar...why? let's just say 'public affection' is 'frowned upon' in malaysia. it turned out alrite cos when that guy finally found us waiting for the bus back to USM, he went like ' Hey where u from? from Bangladesh?' Isa (that's the name of the Libyan dude by the way) said that he was from Libya...and that guy was like ' O Libya, why didn't u tell me before' and he just went off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what the fuck was that!??? is there anything about bangladesh that i shud know about!!?? so anyway, for the next half an hour or so, i had to hear how great Libya was!! (i'm rolling my eyes rite now)


well that's it for now.....if i remember any other minor details which is worth publishing then i'll let u know......later

hey there everybody,
today's my roommate Shikin's birthday.....so we're gonna hav a little get together in our room tonite to cut a cake and stuff....my other roommate, Gayatri was so into this that she made me clean th room AND wipe th floors cos these other gals are cuming to our room....i'm suprised that she didn't want me to clean th windows.....we were both shocked wth th condition of our fan but thank goodness that she did not insist on wiping that.....it's great being small sometimes.....i know i know, i sound lazy...that's th way that i feel today....woke up at 2.30pm...did nothing....called sonja to tell her that i cudn't joing her after movies that nite since it was shikin's b.day. tried to study my bio notes but everytime i pick it up, i go 'wat th fuck do i hav to study in here!?' and end up just flicking th pages and not doing any work there....o real constructive Preetika.

I offered to pick up Shikin's cake and was just gonna do that when this guy from Libya stopped me. he's like " do u recognise me?" of course i didn't but i said that i mite hav during th international days thing. ( i met EVERYBODY then so that was a safe thing to say) he said that he was one of th ones that i served 'the thing' to.....'the thing' happened to be kava, yagona, grog. (i still can't believe that i was serving that in USM.....AND make the local malays drink that...i can just imagine some of yur faces going 'huh?' hahaha)

anyways, back to that Libyan guy. i had a good converstaion wth him and ended up making a date wth him. but th thing is that i am not interested in him AT ALL!!! even though Leigh thinks that he's a hottie! i'm more interested in this Indonesian guy. (for an update on indonesian guys and Lucie, click here). i hav never met or even seen him before the international day and havn't seen him since that day either. Lucie should consider herself lucky as she at least gets to see her guy (who is good looking by the way) even though he's wth his gf most of the time. ( i bet the Indonesian guy thinks that Lucie is stalking him...and his gf must be wondering why she keeps seeing Lucie around everywhere she goes) i'm beggining to think that my Indonesian guy is just a dream since i never even SEE him. me and Lucie made a pact tht we shud get an indonesian guy each before we go home.......hehehehe.....don't think tht's gonna happen wth the way the things are going....or the way that things are NOT going! seriously we're bad influences on each other. our back up plan are these two local guys who we met on fri nite, invited and then ditched them at 'ouch' on saturday nite. i just hope that we never become THAT desperate.....

ok ppl. that's it for now. i better get that cake now before th place closes. i just remembered that i hav to meet Leigh at th canteen to return his speakers. and i hav to get some stuff printed as well.....later amigoes....

hey there.....this is a speech by....ummmmmmmm...don't really know who...but somebody from a high position i'd assume...anyways, one of the tertiary institutions back home (paradise island of FIJI.....cheers all around!!) had made up a rule stating that women should not wear revealing, tight clothes cos it hinders men in their studies....O PUHLEEEEEEEEEASE!!! if men can't control their dicks then it's their problem!! anyways, my uni back home was also being pressured to bring in this rule...they didn't thank goodness.....here's wat they had to say......thanx sheetal for the update ....it's quite a change from this environment ...can't wait to get back home.....

"USP encourages freedom of thought, expression…and clothing preferences
for women.

The University of the South Pacific has no rules or regulations
restricting the choice of clothing for its men and women students and staff and
strongly supports the rights of women to wear any kind of clothing they
are comfortable with.

Responding to recent comments by Fiji Institute of Technology director,
Mr Kolinio Meo that women students in all tertiary institutions should
refrain from wearing shorts, tight skirts and pants because it led to sexual
harassment and drug abuse among male students and lecturers, USP
Registrar Mr Walter Fraser confirmed USP had no such policy and would not
introduce any such restrictions for its women students.

"Dictating what women should wear goes completely against the spirit of
tertiary learning in an open and democratic society, which aims to
encourage freedom of thought and expression at all levels, through
education," Mr Fraser said.

"USP treats its students as mature young adults and expects them to act
responsibly and respectfully within an environment that encourages
personal freedom. Sexual abuse is certainly not tolerated by the University, but
we do not subscribe to the belief that sexual harassment is instigated by
the clothes a woman chooses to wear. The University's view is there is
never a legitimate excuse for any form of sexual harassment." Mr Fraser said
the University had demonstrated a strong commitment towards gender
equality, having passed a new gender policy at its December 2002 Council meeting.

"The policy makes the University's position on gender very clear. We
are committed to ensuring a non-discriminatory environment that encourages
the success of women staff and students at every level of the University.
This means empowering women, not dictating to them what they should wear, or
how they should think or behave. It is about valuing women as women and
ensuring they are adequately recognised and represented in the formal
and informal life of the University."

The USP Gender Policy states: "There is a growing awareness and
recognition in the Pacific region of the need to improve the conditions of women's
lives and the benefits that will be gained when women and men are able
to participate as equals in all aspects of economic, social, cultural and
political life. The education system has a responsibility to contribute
to the achievement of equality between the sexes and to improve the
conditions and situation of life for women and men, girls and boys."


alrite!!!! go Mr. Fraser!!!!

ok check this out! got this on the email from a freind of mine.....thanx naval...he's a sweetheart living in Sydney.....he just sent me an email showing the 'sexiest bitches on earth' hahahhahahah..that was totally sick man.....i'll try to put it online here...i'll see if i can do it......by the way, mine's FEBRUARY....but i'm definetly NOT SUPERSTITIOUS....anything but!!!

JANUARY:Ambitious and serious. Loves to teach and be taught. Always
looking at people's flaws and weaknesses. Likes to criticize. Hardworking
and productive. Smart, neat and organized. Sensitive and has deep
thoughts. Knows how to make others happy. Quiet unless excited or tensed.
Rather reserved. Highly attentive. Resistant to illnesses but prone to
colds. Romantic but has difficulties expressing love. Loves children.
Loyal. Has great social abilities yet easily jealous. Very Stubborn and
money cautious.
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FEBRUARY: Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent
and clever. Changing personality. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble.
Honest and loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when
restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt.
Showing anger easily. Dislike unnecessary things. Loves making friends but
rarely shows it. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and
hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside.
Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Learns to show emotions
_________ ________

MARCH: Attractive personality. Affectionate. Shy and reserved.
Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and
serenity. Sensitive to others. Loves to serve others. Easily angered.
Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Observant and assesses others.
Revengeful. Loves to dream and fantasize. Loves traveling. Loves
attention. Hasty decisions in choosing partners. Loves home decors. Musically
talented. Loves special things. Moody.
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APRIL: Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret.
Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves
attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people's problems. Brave
and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous.
Emotional. Aggressive. Hasty. Good memory. Moving Motivates oneself and others.
Sickness usually of the head and chest.

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MAY: Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated.
Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep
feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs
no motivation. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to
dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck.
Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the
arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many
children. Hardworking. High spirited. Spendthrift.

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JUNE: Thinks far with vision. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite
and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind.
Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and
humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Talkative.
Daydreamer. Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show
character. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves to dress up. Easily bored.
Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Brand conscious.
Executive. Stubborn.

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JULY: Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be
understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has
reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people's feelings. Tactful.
Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable.
Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never
forgets. Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others
physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and
loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp.
Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in
studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Likes
to be quiet. Homely person. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends.
Not aggressive unless provoked. Prone to having stomach and dieting
problems. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.
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AUGUST: Loves to joke. Attractive. Suave and caring. Brave and
fearless. Firm and has leadership qualities. Knows how to console others. Too
generous and egoistic. Takes high pride of oneself. Thirsty for praises.
Extraordinary spirit. Easily angered. Angry when provoked. Easily jealous. Observant. Careful and cautious. Thinks quickly. Independent thoughts.Loves to lead and to be led. Loves to dream. Talented in the arts, music
and defense. Sensitive but not petty. Poor resistance against illnesses.
Learns to relax. Hasty and trusty. Romantic. Loving and caring. Loves to
make friends .

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SEPTEMBER: Suave and compromising. Careful, cautious and organized.
Likes to point out people's mistakes. Likes to criticize. Quiet but able to
talk well. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed.
Trustworthy, loyal and honest. Does work well. Very confident.
Sensitive. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to
look for information. Must control oneself when criticizing. Able to motivate
oneself. Understanding. Fun to be around. Secretive. Loves sports,
leisure and traveling. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings.
Very choosy, especially in relationships. Systematic.
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OCTOBER: Loves to chat. Loves those who loves him. Loves to takes
things at the center. Attractive and suave. Inner and physical beauty. Does
not lie or pretend. Sympathetic. Treats friends importantly. Always making
friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not
care of what others think. Emotional. Decisive. Strong clairvoyance. Loves
to travel, the arts and literature. Soft-spoken, loving and caring
Romantic !!! Touchy and easily jealous. Concerned. Loves outdoors. Just and fair.
Spendthrift. Easily influenced. Easily loses confidence. Loves children.
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NOVEMBER: Has a lot of ideas. Difficult to fathom. Thinks forward.
Unique and brilliant. Extraordinary ideas. Sharp thinking. Fine and strong
clairvoyance. Can become good doctors. Dynamic in personality.
Secretive. Inquisitive. Knows how to dig secrets. Always thinking. Less
talkative but amiable. Brave and generous. Patient. Stubborn and hard-hearted. If
there is a will, there is a way. Determined. Never give up. get angry very
quickly. Thinks differently from others. Sharp-minded. Motivates oneself.
High-spirited. Well-built and tough. Deep love and emotions. Romantic.
Uncertain in relationships. Homely. Hardworking. High abilities. Trustworthy. Honest and keeps secrets. Not able to control emotions. Unpredictable . Created the word "REVENGE"

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DECEMBER: Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Active in games and
interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to
be with. Loves to socialize. Loves praises. Loves attention. Loves to
be loved. Honest and trustworthy. Not pretending. Short tempered. Changing
personality. Not egoistic. Take high pride in oneself. Hates restrictions.
Loves to joke. Good sense of humor. Logical.

i'm still trying to work out how to make changes to this blog....how some of th freaking things are done is beyond me....but no worries...i'll get the hang of it yet....nighty nite all

Lucie just told me that her name is spelt with 'ie' instead of 'y' at the end......tsk tsk tsk.....sorry Lucie

hey there everybody! this is so exciting....starting my own blogspot...well...not THAT exciting but ..yeah...got a little adrenalin rush here.....geez i can't wait to get into my aerobics classes again when i get back home....talking about home, everybody must be busy wth getting started for uni and stuff.....i get 3 weeks off from it.....NICE! i only hope that i don't get told that i need to skip one semester cos i didn't show up for enrollment...that's be a real bummer.....

well as for wat's happening here in malaysia...not much.. went out wth Lucie, Sarah, Yoshi, Rebecca (all australians), Sonja (pronounced as Sonia) from Finland, and these two guys from Germany. Some local people showed up as well. Lucie and others know them better than I do. I made a mistake of calling up these local Malaysian boys who me and Lucie just met the night before. I thought that one of them was cute but my eyes must have played tricks on me cos he wasn't so good-looking the next day...

Me and Lucie did an indian dance on Friday night for the International day. It was really good except the fact that i forgot some of the moves in the middle of the dance hahahahhaha. Lucie was great though. she's a quick learner. she looked gorgeous in a red sari....the indian guys were certainly making their moves on her......

anyways....i hav a lot to say but i don't know whether i should since this is online and stuff.....well...i think this is it for now....later people....moce

ps: for those of u who don't know me, i'm from the island paradise of FIJI......(cheers all around!!!)